People who noticed, might wonder why I was acting as if I had something to hide and when they looked closer, they might figure out why ― because I was a guy crossdressing in public.
I was outing myself!
Once I figured out the error of my ways, I was determined not to out myself again. Since then, I have followed three rules that have helped me achieve that goal:
1. Act as if you belong, so walk tall and strut your stuff.
2. Don't look away furtively if other people look at you. Do the opposite: look back at them and disarm them with a smile.
3. You are a beautiful woman and you should be happy about it, so smile, smile, smile.
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Great advice! I know I had the same issues initially, too. It's a matter of being comfortable with yourself and accepting yourself.
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I always say that my FFS is a Fast, Friendly Smile. A real smile shows in your eyes, not just from your mouth, by the way - whether you're Irish or not, "'tis like the morn in Spring.":-)
ReplyDeleteIt's remarkable that when you smile at other women, they smile back and that smile is an ice breaker. Claire does it much more than when in male mode!
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