Saturday, July 5, 2025
Friday, July 4, 2025
Happy Independence Day!
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Wearing Claudie Pierlot |
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Actors playing femulating Army men in the 1943 film This Is the Army. Click here to watch the film on YouTube. |
Thursday, July 3, 2025
Full-Time
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Wearing Ann Taylor |
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Dávid Hartl femulating Ariana Grande on Polish television’s Tvoja Tvar Anie Povedome. Click here to view this amazing femulation on YouTube. |
Wednesday, July 2, 2025
Making Up: The Rest of the Story
Prep Your Skin
Cleanse and moisturize: Start with clean, moisturized skin. I cannot recommend moisturizer enough and recommend using it everyday even if you are not being a girl that day.
Shaving Tip: A close shave is key (I use a gel shaving cream with a multi-blade razor). Follow with a soothing, non-greasy moisturizer or aftershave balm.
Primer (optional, but I always use primer): Use a smoothing or pore-filling primer to create a clean canvas and reduce the appearance of texture or beard shadow.
Color Correction (Especially for Beard Shadow)
Use a peach or orange corrector:
Dab a peach corrector over blue/gray beard shadow or orange for deeper complexions.
Blend with a sponge or fingers. This step cancels out unwanted tones before foundation.
(I used a corrector in my youth, but no longer use it because my beard is nearly white and does not shadow.)
Foundation
Choose the right shade: Match to your neck and chest for a seamless blend.
Application:
Use a sponge or foundation brush. (I use a liquid foundation, so a sponge is my application tool.)
Start in the center of the face and blend outward.
Build up in thin layers for more coverage where needed (like beard area).
Concealer
Use a lighter concealer under the eyes.
Blend well with a sponge or brush.
Setting Powder
Lightly dust translucent powder over your face to set your base and prevent shine.
Press powder into the beard area to reduce texture and set coverage.
Use a smaller brush under the eyes or jawline for extra definition, if desired.
Contour and Highlight (Face Shaping!)
Contour (for a softer, oval face shape):
Use a cool-toned brown powder or cream.
Apply under cheekbones, along the jawline, sides of the nose, and temples.
Blend thoroughly for natural shadowing.
Highlight:
Use a soft shimmer or light matte highlighter on cheekbones, brow bones, bridge of nose and cupid’s bow.
Blush
Adds warmth and femininity.
Apply to the apples of the cheeks and sweep slightly upward toward the temples.
Go for soft pinks, peaches or mauves depending on your skin tone.
Lips
Prep: Exfoliate and moisturize.
Lip Liner: Define your lip shape—overline slightly if desired for a fuller look. Use a well-sharpened lip liner pencil starting the line at the middle of the lip and work outwards to the end of the lip line following the curve of my natural lip line
Lipstick or Gloss:
Choose a flattering shade (rosy pinks, mauves or nudes are good everyday options).
Gloss or satin finishes can feminize the lips more than mattes.
Use a lipstick brush to apply the lipstick. A brush provides better coverage where you want the color and avoids putting color where you don't want it.
Close your mouth on a piece of tissue paper to remove any excess, then apply a light coat of translucent powder on your lips (this will hold the color for a longer period of time).
Reapply or touch up your lip liner, then reapply your lipstick. Apply lip gloss if desired (sometimes I do, but usually I don’t).
Pro Tip: Lighter and shinier lips often look more feminine and youthful.
Finishing Touches
Setting spray: Mist your face to lock everything in and soften the powdery look.
Check in natural light: Always look at your finished face in daylight or near a window—it reveals any unblended spots.
Extra Feminizing Tips
Jawline: Softly contour under the jaw to minimize squareness.
Nose: Narrow a broader nose with subtle side contouring and a highlight on the bridge.
Forehead: Contour at the temples can visually lower a higher brow ridge.
Be pretty!
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Wearing StyleWe |
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Richard Chamberlain femulating on television’s The Drew Carey Show. |
Tuesday, July 1, 2025
Doing Your Eyes
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Wearing Paige |
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A modern bridal party (femulators Heather, Dawn, Nicky, and Jemma, masculinator Jules, and femulators Stephi and Nadine) |
Monday, June 30, 2025
Stuff 77: Long Nails
By J.J. Atwell
Sunday, June 29, 2025
Saturday, June 28, 2025
Four-Inch Heels
Now they powder, preen, and stretch at dawn.
They ruled the house with fists of steel…
Now it’s aprons, blush, and four-inch heels!
Friday, June 27, 2025
Men in Diva Dresses
Your Face Sounds Familiar is a popular international reality TV format that originated in Spain as Tu Cara Me Suena and has been adapted in many countries, including the Philippines, the UK, and various European nations. The show is known for its weekly celebrity impersonation performances, where contestants transform into famous singers, often of the opposite sex. One of the most entertaining and memorable aspects of the show has been male celebrities impersonating female pop divas.
Why It WorksMale-to-female impersonations on Your Face Sounds Familiar are fan favorites for several reasons.
Transformation Challenge: Watching a man convincingly embody a female icon like Beyoncé, Whitney Houston or Lady Gaga requires vocal control, dance skills and total commitment to the character — including wardrobe, wigs, heels and makeup.
Entertainment Factor: The performances balance campy humor with genuine talent, often drawing laughter and admiration simultaneously.
Cultural Commentary: These impersonations play with gender norms in a lighthearted way, challenging traditional ideas of masculinity on primetime television.
Favorite femulations include:
- Cher
- Celine Dion
- Adele
- Diana Ross
- Tina Turner
- Lady Gaga
- Britney Spears
- Mariah Carey
- Madonna
- Whitney Houston
Reception
Audiences tend to respond positively to male contestants "cross-performing" as women, especially when done with authenticity and commitment. The performances are rarely mocking — they often become heartfelt tributes. Some of the best are praised for the emotional resonance, particularly when male singers take on female power ballads and deliver them with unexpected vocal skill.
Your Book Sounds Familiar
Curves is a 174-page book compiled by Femulate reader Anja, which documents the femulations that have appeared on Your Face Sounds Familiar. For a very limited time, click here to download a free pdf of the book. (Note that the file is large: 485 Mbytes.)
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Wearing Elàgia |
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Kuba Molęda femulating Margaret on Polish television's Your Face Sounds Familiar. Click here to view this femulation on YouTube. |
Thursday, June 26, 2025
Tips for Male Bridesmaids
Here are practical and thoughtful tips for male bridesmaids (sometimes called “bridesmen” or “bride's attendants”) to help them confidently support the bride and blend into the wedding party with grace and style—no matter how traditionally feminine or creative the vision may be.
General Role Tips
Honor the Bride’s Vision
You’re there to support her, so whether it’s a pastel suit, matching dress or floral robe—go with the flow and be her champion.
Be Emotionally Present
Bridesmaids are emotional support too. Check in with her often, offer encouragement, and help calm wedding-day jitters.
Help With Traditional Duties
This can include dress shopping, bridal showers, bachelorette parties or helping organize logistics with other attendants. Bring humor, grace and a good playlist.
Outfit Coordination
Blend, But Stay You
Coordinate your look with the bridesmaids without losing your own comfort or identity. If everyone’s wearing lavender, consider a lavender shirt, tie or suit lining.
Dresses? Own It or Adapt It
Open-minded? A dress or gown can be fabulous. Go all-in with shapewear, accessories and heels if the vibe calls for it.
Prefer pants? A chiffon blouse with soft trousers, a flowy jumpsuit or a pastel-colored suit keeps things aligned while staying true to your style.
Shoes Matter
If you’re wearing heels for the first time, practice. Otherwise, chic flats, loafers or even satin sneakers can be perfect with the right attitude.
Beauty & Prep
Participate in Beauty Routines
Join the hair and makeup session—even if it’s just a light touch-up. Manicured nails, light concealer or a dewy glow can elevate your look (and mood).
Confidence is the Best Accessory
Whatever you wear, wear it proudly. You're not a “gimmick”—you’re part of the bride’s chosen circle.
During the Ceremony & Reception
Walk the Walk
Practice your aisle walk if you’re paired with another bridesmaid or groomsman. Walk with poise—heels or no heels.
Speech or Toast? Be Sincere & Lighthearted
Share a loving memory, keep it short and celebrate the bride’s joy. Humor’s great, but avoid embarrassing stories unless you know she’d love it.
Extra Touches
Carry a Clutch or Feminine Detail
If you're dressed femininely, a matching clutch or bouquet completes the look and adds polish.
Embrace the Photos
Pose like a pro. Don’t be shy about group glam shots, bouquet tosses or mirror selfies with the girls.
Post-Wedding, Be Proud
If you're breaking gender norms, remember you’re also expanding what’s possible for others. Celebrate that.
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Wearing Boston Proper |
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Male bride and male bridesmaid |