Saturday, December 5, 2015

Kandi's Favorite Photos (of Kandi!)

I cannot remember a time in my life where I have been so happy.

About a year ago, I finally came to the realization that I am a crossdresser. Once I did that, my life completely changed very much for the better. I lost weight and shed all the hair that covered my body. The biggest hurdle was telling my wife, who only said that she wanted me to be happy. What unconditional love! I have only been going out fully presenting this year and once I started, I've just kept going.

The photos submitted represent two outings I had recently, one of which was my attendance at a Beauty Class at Sephora. Me and about 15 girls (how great is that)! Under no circumstances do I pass when I am out. However, I have learned as long as you are honest about yourself, carry yourself with confidence and smile, people tend to accept you, many really welcome you!

I have made so many new friends since I have ventured out. Embracing my true self has also made me a much better man, a better husband, a better father. I am so much more accepting, open, caring, loving, I have become a person I am very proud of. And all it took was to be honest with myself. I only tell this story for others girls like myself, go out! I know (believe me, it only took me 50 years to gather the courage). It’s scary at first, but as long as you are smart about what you do and where you go and dress appropriately, you will find the world to be quite a remarkable place. Thank you to all the girls out there that have inspired me.

Calling all girls! My open invitation to post your favorite photo along with the story behind it and the reason it is your favorite photo still stands, so don't be shy, send me your fave foto. ― Stana

Source: Neiman Marcus
Wearing Alexis.

Source: Chicago Now
Alyssa and her daughter. Read all about Alyssa here.


  1. Love both outfits. Especially the brown dress with boots. Your jewelry will works well with your outfits.

  2. Both Kandi and Alyssa are hot ladies.

    1. I tried answering your recent e-mail, but I keep getting this error when I send it: "550 Requested action not taken: mailbox unavailable." Is there another e-mail address I can reply to?

    2. - I was saying that I don't like wigs and makeup. I don't want to pass. I don't want to be a woman. I just want to be a guy that wears dresses

  3. Dear Kandi,

    Thank You for sharing your truly lovely photos and a little bit about your wonderful new journey into the delightful world of dressing, making-up, and going out as a woman.

    Your two ensembles are gorgeous and so fashionable and tasteful. Our beloved fashionista Stana, I suspect, is very pleased with your attractive presentation. You go, girl!