If being a woman is such a good fit for you, the gods obviously intended that you live on the feminine side of the gender continuum (even though they erred during the installation of the plumbing).
The plumbing is a handicap, but don't let it handicap you from living the life you were intended to live.
I know I should practice what I preach, but I have an excuse, although I do live as a woman as often as I can. And you may have an excuse that is just as legitimate as mine, so you are excused.
But to the rest of you who have no excuse, you are not excused.
If you've got it, don't flaunt it --- live it!