Wednesday, September 28, 2022

Unmentionables Mentioned Here

They say that married couples start to look like each other over time. I don’t know about looking alike, but after 39 years of marriage, my wife and I now wear the same bra size!

I wear a girdle. I am the only person in my immediate family who wears girdles. However, my dear departed Mother wore girdles and growing up, I often borrowed her girdles. Since I take after her, that’s probably one reason why I wear girdles. (The other reason is to femininely shape my body.)  

I have been throwing around the term “nancyboy” to describe a feminine/feminized male. But after receiving a comment from a reader concerning that term, I thought about it and realized it is incorrect. The correct term is “nancygirl.” 

My reasoning is that “nancy-whatever” is supposed to be the opposite of “tomboy.” Since tomboy is combination of a male name (Tom) and the word “boy,” the opposite should be a combination of a female name (Nancy) and the word “girl” (not boy). (You would have to be nit-picker like me to worry about piddly stuff like this, but I am a nit-picker and so it goes.)

We feed the birds, squirrels, chipmunks and whatever wildlife shows up to eat the bird seed and peanuts I put out every morning. (Besides the usual suspects, we also had a deer and her two does, three raccoons, a groundhog and a bear.) 

The leaves are starting to turn here and some have already fallen, but the wildlife continues to show-up to dine with one exception: the hummingbirds. Seems that they got out of Dodge early this week. I am saddened by their departure and the prospects of a long winter ahead.



Source: Venus
Wearing Venus


Paris, circa 1960
Femulating in Paris, circa 1960

10 comments:

  1. It looks like Charlie is in character as a woman
    Lucy

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  2. If your going to make comments about would reom gridles and the like perhaps you should provide some more details on the subject as in what type you recommend ?

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  3. Your comment about feeding the animals reminded me of a UK classic by Blur: Parklife. I'm not sure how it translates across the Pond...

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  4. I once created a meme suggesting that cross dressing is the male side of being a Tom-Boy, but could never find a term to express it. I had never considered Nancy-Girl. Thank you for your wisdom and insight. (lol)
    Also, those Venus shorts are SO cute. You have once again sent me to Venus (not literally, of course) to buy a pair.

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    1. I had the same thought about those shorts! I already own (& love!) polka dot pantyhose, so I think I need to go to Venus to emulate that look:)

      Ciao! Elise

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  5. When I was young, I remember my mother telling my sisters that good girls always wear a girdle when leaving the house. I am the only girl of the three of us that still does wear one. I too wear a girdle to give myself more feminine lines. The first time I was caught by my mother was when I had to try on her Platex open bottom girdle. She caught me trying to sneak it back into her bedroom. I think I was around seven at the time. She reprimanded me for the possibility of damaging it. Not that boys don't wear girdles. Think she was just at a loss at how to respond.
    Elizabeth

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    1. My first girdle was a panty girdle. Of course it was mom’s. I wore her nylons, slip, under a beautiful yellow chiffon dress that had a wonderfully full skirt. I was 12 and for an hour I was in heaven! I felt like girl and loved it.

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  6. Autumn in New England break out the foundation garments, tights, long skirts and sweaters off we go for a day of shopping in quaint boutiques having lunch with our girlfriends, a few classes of wine, a crackling fire in an old historic Inn, retiring to to an oversized feather bed! --Paula G

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  7. NancyGirl I like that! ---Paula G

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  8. How times have changed. Only the French gurl in the middle looks convincingly feminine, whereas I suspect a similar group of today's gurls would look even more womanlike than most "real" women. We are obviously getting better at it.

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