The mall was one of my favorite places to go en femme.
Even if I was not planning to buy anything — a rare occurrence! — I loved to mince through the mall with my heels clicking and my derriere wiggling, browsing the racks with the other ladies. They seemed to have no issue with a 6-foot-2 lady in 3-inch heels joining them, arms full of clothing to try on in the dressing room.
By the way, to protect myself in case anyone had a problem with my presence, I always asked a saleslady where the dressing room was so I could try on my finds even though I usually could have found it with my eyes closed, having used that facility in some stores countless times.
They always directed me to the ladies’ dressing room, so if anyone complained, I could say, “But, officer, she told me to use the ladies’ dressing room!”
Yes, I fit in pretty well. The handful of odd looks I received were far outnumbered by the countless salespeople and customers, both female and male, who interacted with me as just another middle-aged lady shopping until she dropped.
Which reminds me…
Back when some stores required you to show a photo ID, usually a driver’s license, when using a credit card, more than once the cashier looked at my license and asked, “Is this your husband’s driver’s license?”
Those were the days!
Sadly, my favorite mall is now a “dead mall.” There are no stores there that I want to visit and, worse, there are no people to watch me mince by!
And so it goes.
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| Clay Adkins femulating in the 1999 film Forever Fabulous. Click here to view this film on YouTube. |





Hi Stana, your mall may be a dead mall but my mall is now being turned into a design facility for submarines!
ReplyDeleteLeann
you 'mince'?
ReplyDeleteYou don't?
DeleteIf your heels are high enough you have to mince, especially if you're wearing a tight pencil skirt, or a restrictive girdle.
DeleteI have found that many observers' questions about who you "really" are tend to be squelched by an ample use of your derrier. (giggle)
DeleteMy local shopping area went from groupings of strip malls to a covered mall, back to a series of strips malls. All of the departments stores closed. Now the biggest store is Target. Sad.
ReplyDeleteMall Walking is one of my favorite pastimes. I prefer to go with a friend, usually female, but have spent far too many hours there alone. Snapping photos, buying trinkets, and just being Julie in Public.
ReplyDeleteI miss Dress Barn. I had some great interactions with salesladies in their stores and never had any trouble trying things on either enfemme or drab guy mode.
ReplyDeleteI never thought I'd see the day when malls no longer existed. They were, after all, a place for people to congregate, to see others and be seen, to shop, have some food and, if you were lucky, to catch a movie. Sadly, I seem to have bad luck with shopping online. Whether it's the fit, the look, having on more than one occasion wondered why what I was sent doesn't quite look like what I ordered, or the product having a tear in it when received, which is something every girl knows to look at when shopping. Have to wonder if malls will ever rebound or we destined to a life of too many delivery trucks on our highways?!?!?
ReplyDeleteI am going to take a long hot bath and shave my body smooth. After towel drying I will apply sexy lotion and perfume to begin the feminization process with Sculpted Nails, Make up, Hair and Pearls + Jewelry.
ReplyDeleteNow to the choices for me. I will put some silky stockings on my smooth legs. Next is some sexy lingerie including silky panties with breast forms. Complete my look with a sexy cocktail dress and high heels I am ready for anything.
My own Forced Feminization of me needs a group of Night Out with Girls, Couples or Boys to complete my transition from Male to Female. I love to share and I am looking for a new experience
Text me ……….Jenny