Stuff 91: Wigs Redux

By J.J. Atwell

More Wig Stuff

I’ve mentioned wigs several times in my writings here on Femulate. For most of us a good wig is a necessity for our femme expression. Yes, some of us can get by with their own hair and they are the lucky ones. For the rest of us though, it’s a challenge to find the right wig. 

You may remember that one of my New Year’s resolutions was to get a new wig. So far, all I’ve done is quite a bit of looking, but no buying. It’s hard to pick the right color and style in a new wig.

Come to think of it, even GGs have challenges when deciding about their own hair in terms of length, cut and color. Perhaps as CDs we have it easier than them because we can change ours on a whim. Not happy with your look? Just pull off the wig and slap on a different one. 

Looking

Yes, I’ve been looking. Most often by checking various online sites. You know there are many of them. Obviously, Amazon is the biggest but some of the wig specialty shops offer a really good selection. There are so many choices, it’s hard to focus.

One of the members of my local CD group is a bit of a wig aficionado and suggested a YouTube channel “Crazy Wig Lady.” I’ve watched a few installments and agree that it is a really good resource for looking at different wigs. About once a month the Crazy Wig Lady puts on a show where she includes brief snippets of a dozen or so wigs she’s tried recently. For each wig, she lists the manufacturer, style and color – all very important criteria when you are buying a new wig. 

My friend suggests using this resource to narrow down your search. When you see a wig that you like, make a note of its specifications so you can search for a vendor that carries it when it’s time to buy. 

Buying

My friend suggests using these resources to narrow down your search and then go to an actual wig shop when you are ready to buy. Yes, that’s right, buy from a real shop, not online. Why you ask? Because what looks good on a model might not look as good on your head. 

Everybody’s head is different in terms of facial shape and complexion which all have a bearing on how the wig will look on you. You really, really need to see the wig on you to know if it’s right. Going to a wig shop allows you to try on several variations in cut and color. In a reputable shop, you’ll also get good feedback from them. Bonus: if you can get a trusted friend to go with you who will give an honest opinion.

Wearing

So you found the perfect wig. Yay! But maybe it could be even better? Put it on and look at it critically in the mirror. Does the wig frame your face appropriately? Or could some judicious trimming make it better? I’ve had several wigs trimmed and they do make them look better. 

The picture at the top of this Stuff is my current favorite and I was fortunate enough to have the wife of one of our members trim it from the original out of the box wig. It is so much better for my overall presentation than the uncut version ever was. 

I’ll Be Back

There will be more Stuff. As always comments are welcome either here on the blog or by email to Jenn6nov at-sign gmail dot com. JJ is always looking for more stuff, so if there is something you would like to read about please let me know!

Wearing Theia

Sean Hayes femulating on television’s Lazy Susan.