I am not ready to come out at work (I may never be ready to come out at work). However, I have been considering wearing women's clothing to work. No skirts or dresses, but rather women's slacks and tops that are androgynous or unisexual; items of clothing that look masculine enough that the casual observer will not notice that they are actually women's clothing.
I already own women's flats that are unisexual and when the weather turns cooler, I have women's sweaters that can go either way.
I am unsure about the unmentionables to wear. Women's socks are a given, but what about knee-highs? Spanx will definitely be part of my wardrobe, but what about sports bras (I can use the support) and camisoles?
I already wear moisturizer and eye cream on a daily basis; I can definitely see adding a lip balm to the mix.
Getting a unisexual hairdo is another option and I have also been thinking about getting my ears pierced.
I think if I slowly introduce these feminine items into my wardrobe, my co-workers will not notice that I am wearing women's clothing.
The important thing is that I will know that appropriately I am wearing women's clothing.