By Monika Kowalska
Recently, I treated myself to a fresh set of acrylic nails, and what started as a simple beauty appointment quickly became an exploration of self-expression, style, and even patience.
Acrylic nails, for those unfamiliar, are artificial nail enhancements created using a combination of liquid monomer and powder polymer. Once shaped and cured, they offer durability, length, and the flexibility to showcase any design imaginable, from subtle elegance to bold, statement-making art.
A fun bit of history: acrylic nails actually came about by accident. In 1954, dentist Frederick Slack broke one of his own nails and improvised a fix using the same dental acrylic he worked with every day. That quick solution sparked an entire industry. Over the decades, chemists and nail experts have transformed his improvised idea into the safer, refined acrylic systems we use now. Hard to believe such a major beauty innovation began as a spur‑of‑the‑moment fix.
The process itself is both meticulous and transformative. My nail technician carefully sculpted each nail, ensuring symmetry, strength, and an ideal shape for my hands. Acrylics can take anywhere from one to two hours to apply, depending on length and design complexity. During that time, I had a front-row seat to the artistry behind each brushstroke and filed edge, reminding me that nails are not merely functional; they are miniature canvases.
Caring for acrylic nails requires attention and respect. While they are remarkably resilient, they are not indestructible. Daily routines, typing, cooking, or opening small packaging, become exercises in precision. Hydration and cuticle care are essential, as acrylics can dry out the surrounding skin. Removal must be done carefully to avoid damage to the natural nails underneath.
But the benefits extend beyond aesthetics and durability. Acrylic nails offer a psychological boost. They serve as a personal ritual, a moment of self-care, and a quiet declaration of attention to detail. The confidence they provide is tangible; even small gestures, pouring a cup of coffee, holding a pen, or swiping through a phone, become opportunities to showcase elegance and poise.
Moreover, acrylic nails are versatile tools for personal expression. Their surfaces can host colors, textures, and intricate designs that reflect personality, mood, or even season. They allow individuals to experiment with style in ways that clothing or makeup cannot. For me, they are both a fashion statement and a form of creative expression, every curve, shine, and accent color chosen intentionally.
In essence, acrylic nails are more than just a cosmetic accessory, they are a fusion of art, self-care, and empowerment. While they require upkeep, patience, and occasional adjustments, the rewards are clear: confidence, elegance, and a reminder that beauty can be a deliberate, intentional choice. In a world where small details often go unnoticed, investing in your nails is investing in yourself.
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I have had acrylic nails for over a decade. I have only damaged one nail over that time. Love them and enjoy my 3 hour mani/pedi every 3 to 4 weeks. Until you have 'nails', you don't realize how much fun they are to have. Both men and women commitment me on them all the time. Mine are currently 1+ cm longer, midnight blue with a thin silver glitter French tip.
ReplyDeleteYou forgot to mention that gel is used to seal the acrylic. As the nail grows out you get 'moons'.
The gel and acrylic are grinded off with a Dremel before a new acrylic is applied.
If you have the opportunity to treat yourself, do it.
Cali
Acrylics are stunning! I’m honestly curious how you’re typing on your phone, Monika 😅. Loving all your posts as always! ❤️ – Mandy
ReplyDeleteI can answer that. You need to find a different way to tap some things. I know my microwave is one of those things. Phones also, tap with the tip of your nail.
DeleteCali
Really enjoyed your column today Monika. When I go out I always use those press on nails and, as you might expect, I manage to lose one during the outing. Acrylics would solve that problem. JJ
ReplyDeleteToday marks day 8 with my acrylics on. Hoping to keep them on for another 11 days before they need to come off. Love them, but it is more challenging to take contacts out with them on.
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