Femulate: Stuff 95: The Writing Process

Monday, November 10, 2025

Stuff 95: The Writing Process

By J.J. Atwell

Probably Boring

This installment of Stuff may be boring to you. Today I’m going to give you some insight into why I write and what goes on behind the scenes to generate this Stuff. I’ll understand if you simply move on to other, more interesting things on the internet. Perhaps one of the blogs Stana lists on the side of this page may be of interest?

Before going much further I’d like to remind you that despite having a wide-ranging audience for Stuff (thank you, Stana), I am not an expert on our condition. I only write about my perspective and observations as a crossdresser.

As I mentioned in previous installments of Stuff, I have an opinion about everything and I’m not afraid to say it. I find that writing is actually therapeutic for me. I hope when you read it you’ll find it therapeutic as well.

Subjects

Some of you may be wondering how I come up with the subjects to write about. There are basically two sources of Stuff. One is the various emails and comments that readers of Stuff send me using the link below or via the comment section. Many of you have what I consider very interesting views. Some of those comments have opened up new vistas for me and I thank you. Have you made a suggestion that I didn’t follow up on? It could be a couple of reasons. I either just haven’t gotten to it yet or I don’t know enough about the subject to write anything useful.

The second source for Stuff is just random things that pop into my head from time to time. I do some of my most creative thinking while in the shower. Some people sing, I think. Take that as you may.

So when a new thought comes up, I put it on a list of subjects for future Stuff. Sometimes I do more research before getting to the topic. Other times I rely on my own experiences.

The Hook

Having decided what to write about for an installment of Stuff, I think it’s important to have a subject line (AKA the “hook”) that will get your attention and prompt you to read further. By nature, I prefer subject lines that are humorous. I’m also a fan of puns, so you may find quite a few punny subject lines. I make no apologies for my puns.

The Body

I learned to write with basic grammatical style in the business world. My writing is not creative writing like you would find in a novel. It’s not great English literature. Instead I’m writing to convey information. That means structuring thoughts into concise paragraphs. Paragraphs that have a subject and supporting sentences. New subject = new paragraph.

MEGO

I try to keep paragraphs short, although I often fail at that. I believe that a long, unbroken paragraph leads to MEGO. Have you heard of that acronym before? My Eyes Glaze Over? That’s the effect a person gets when faced with something long and potentially boring. By now many of you have developed MEGO reading my Stuff. Sorry. I’ve failed like that many a time. But a good failure is important from time to time as long as you learn from them. That’s something you should apply to your CDing life, too.

I’ll Be Back

There will be more Stuff, hopefully including some topics you suggested. As always comments are welcome either here on the blog or by email to Jenn6nov at-sign gmail dot com. JJ is always looking for more stuff, so if there is something you would like to read about, please let me know!