Monday, June 5, 2023

More Ask Me Anything Answers

In response to my request to ask me anything, Christina Cross asked three questions.

1) How often/frequency do you femulate?

Never often enough! 

Normally I get out and about en femme a couple of times each month as well as dress at home even more often than that. But my “normal” schedule was disrupted the last ten months or so by my bad knee. It has been four months since my total knee replacement surgery and I’d say that I’m about 95% recovered, so I am hoping to get out more often now that I am approaching normality.
2) When you are not femulating, in your mind do you still see yourself as Stana? Or is that only during your femulating times?

I am the same en femme or en homme. I do not switch between personalities – my normal personality is definitely on the feminine side of the street and I do not man up when en homme. So I guess I am Stana most of the time.

3) When you are not femulating do you dress in stealth, aka wearing androgynous women's clothes such as pants and shirts?

My “male” wardrobe is a mix of traditional male and female clothing. For example, my underwear bottoms are woman’s panties and most of my jeans are woman’s. I probably could use a bra, but that is a bridge too far, so I go bra-less in boy mode.

Ask me something else.

Source: New York & Company
Wearing New York & Company



  1. In my case with a bra cup size.of DD I MUST wear a bra when I'm out in public.


  2. AnonymousJune 05, 2023

    Around 3 weeks ago, I dressed for the first time in a year. It's never as infrequent as that normally. Hope it's a smaller gap until next time! X

    Rebecca (she/they)

  3. AnonymousJune 05, 2023

    Eric looks fabulous , who wouldn't want to be looking that good ?

  4. AnonymousJune 05, 2023

    A little tip for those of us who have No choice but to be Closeted . Wearing Black comfy cotton panties , boxer and high waisted all the time ,goes unnoticed by the wife , so trash those guy undergarments .

  5. Stana, thanks for taking the time to answer those questions. =)

  6. AnonymousJune 05, 2023

    You said " So I guess I am Stana most of the time.
    I see most cis wives will Never understand a spouse with the Femulating Gift , How can they ? Only someone with the Femulating gift Completely understands trans femininity in another Tgirl and always craves her friendship.

  7. AnonymousJune 06, 2023

    Goes unnoticed by wife? You do all the laundry?

  8. AnonymousJune 06, 2023

    In response to the comment on doing the laundry, it does not take long to run a load of lingerie through the washer and dryer when a wife is out of the house.