Wednesday, May 9, 2018

Your Turn

Any suggestions?

I like writing this blog and I assume people like reading it with nearly 14 million hamburgers sold.

Can I do better?

Is there anything I can do here that would increase the value of reading this blog for you?

I am always open to your suggestions, so please leave comments below or, if you prefer, e-mail me by clicking here.

I look forward to reading and implementing your suggestions, so have at it!

Source: Veronica Beard
Wearing Veronica Beard (Source: Veronica Beard)

Source: Digital Transgender Archive
Eddie, a man in drag poses for a close up wearing a pearl necklace and styled hair, circa 1925. (Source: Digital Transgender Archive)


  1. AnonymousMay 09, 2018

    Steer clear of politics. A number of times I have considered not following due to political issues. Other than that, I turn your site on first thing in the morning (CA time) and look forward to the read and other things on the site.


  2. Kathi LakeMay 09, 2018

    Honestly, what you are doing is just fine! I like the fact that it's not just your adventures, but interesting things from around the transgender perspective and more. Your page is always interesting. As far as politics, I'm a big girl. I can handle stories I may not agree with. We're all individuals here, and different perspectives help us see others as not so different after all.

  3. If you want my opinion, please steer clear of politics. I happen to believe Obama was the worse president in a very long time, worse overall than Trump. However Trump has his flaws.

    1. AnonymousMay 17, 2018

      "If you want my opinion, please steer clear of politics. I happen to believe Obama was the worse president in a very long time, worse overall than Trump. However Trump has his flaws."

      In other words, steer clear of politics that disagree with yours.

      It's Stana's blog. She can write as she sees fit.

      I happen to agree with her, that Trump is a turgid disgrace. But even if I didn't agree, it would not disturb me at all to have views with which I disagree aired on *her* blog.

  4. AnonymousMay 09, 2018

    Say anything you want to. Politics is just fine for intelligent people. After all it is in the First Amendment of the Constitution, Freedom of Speech, particularly Political Speech!!! so have at it. No one shuts up a woman!!

  5. AnonymousMay 09, 2018

    It's your blog, you can write what you want, including politics.

    That said, losing readers who think you are on the wrong side of the political issue would be no loss at all.

    I find your blog to be a daily must read.

  6. Stana,

    I love your blog just the way it is! Perhaps more comments -- and guest posts -- from the rest of us (I know, guilty as charged!). Like Mark Twain said, it's the difference of opinion that makes a horse race. (E.g. I rarely wear heels ...) It would be wonderful if trans issues were nonpolitical, but they are not. I use the ladies' room. 'Nuff said.

  7. Dear Stana,

    I love all of your posts. I tend to agree with virtually all your opinions. Occasionally, I disagree with comments made by some of your readers. However, I think you are very fair in posting comments that disagree with some of your opinions. I like your adherence to free speech. You have always done a wonderful job of running your blog.



  8. Hi Stana,
    I have followed your blog for some time now and find it refreshing to see the many items and articles that you present. I also enjoy reading the different opinions that commentors present. Please don't change anything.

  9. AnonymousMay 10, 2018

    Give the links where you find the femulator photos. Stop mocking women who are not as pretty as you.

    1. Dear Anonymous and Stana,

      The fact that Stana did not delete your comment shows her willingness to post opinions that may not be complimentary to her. You are entitled to your opinion. In my opinion, Stana has never “mocked” other women or transwomen ... “who are not as pretty as” she. She may occasionally mention compliments she has received on her excellent feminine presentation. That is not mocking anyone. In fact, it is encouraging to other femulators on how they can appear as an attractive woman.



  10. AnonymousMay 11, 2018

    Hi Stana, I have followed your blog for many years (and from many countries). I might not always agree with your comments, but I love what you do, how you live your live and I love that you take the time and all the effort that it takes to publish ¨Femulate¨.
    I know you have your political opinions, I think you should be able to express them this is your blog, say what you want, if some political biggot is going to stop reading you because you dare not to conform to their ideas that is her loss, not yours.
    Thank you for what you do every day, you insipire me, I am not yet out but certainly reading you gives me hope!

  11. Is Paula still guest posting? The blog is excellent with just Stana posting, but I used to enjoy her occasional stories as well.

    1. Paula has an open invitation to post here as does everybody else. She just has not posted anything lately.

  12. Janet YbarraMay 13, 2018

    Thanks for asking, but I for one enjoy what you already post...politics and all.

    Moreover, if you started writing more to suit an audience and less your own heart I think your blog would lose its essential panache.

    Just one girl's thought.