Hi Staci.I guess I'm a man who know what he likes. I am attracted to transgender women and have been for many, many years. Most gurls I meet think the only thing I want is sex, but I do long for a lasting relationship. As far as the sex thing goes I hate to say it but I am a guy!! And being a guy I am stricken with the traits of one, sex being on the forefront of my mind when I meet someone. I find it funny that when I meet a transgender gurl that is (technically a guy) and she thinks all I want is sex! I would think she would understand a mans mind and how it works. Guys work on attraction and sexual stimulation when they first meet someone. Hate to say it but it's true! I have never been attracted to a gurl at first sight based on their personality, is that a bad thing? I don't think so, I think it normal male behavior, I just wish that all you absolutely wonderful transgender women out there begin to understand that in your longing to be as Fem as you can that you don't inherit the one trait that most men don't like in women.. Their attitudes towards sex and the male sex drive.