Navigating Visibility and Risk in Today’s Political Climate
In recent years, gender expression in public life has become both more visible and more contested. The once-niche topic of crossdressing now sits at the uneasy intersection of fashion, politics, identity and civil rights.
While crossdressing itself—wearing clothing traditionally associated with a different gender—is not illegal in most Western countries, including the United States, the safety and acceptance of those who do so are increasingly shaped by the volatile political climate surrounding gender identity. Nowhere is this tension more apparent than in the resurgence of policies and rhetoric aimed at erasing or restricting gender nonconformity. As a result, crossdressers today face a cultural and legal landscape that is far from settled—and in many ways, growing more hostile.
Historically, crossdressing has served many purposes: theatrical, personal, erotic, performative, rebellious or simply expressive. In some cases, it is an aspect of a person’s transgender or nonbinary identity; in others, it may be a lifestyle choice unrelated to gender identity at all. But regardless of the motivation, crossdressing disrupts traditional binary gender roles—roles that have become a political flashpoint in the United States and elsewhere.
In the last decade, strides in transgender visibility and rights have provoked fierce backlash from conservative leaders, culminating in a wave of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation and rhetoric. For those who crossdress, especially in ways that are visibly gender nonconforming, this backlash creates new risks in public life.
Trump’s 2025 return to the political stage brought with it a suite of executive orders targeting what his administration labels “radical gender ideology.” These orders, while not specifically naming crossdressers, enact sweeping changes that affect anyone who deviates from traditional gender norms. For example, Executive Order 14168 redefines sex as an immutable biological category, effectively erasing federal recognition of transgender and nonbinary people. By restricting how institutions acknowledge gender, this policy removes key protections for those whose gender expression does not align with their assigned sex at birth. While not a direct ban on crossdressing, the implications are chilling: it becomes easier to justify discrimination or even harassment against anyone whose appearance is deemed “inappropriate” by rigid binary standards.
The practical effects of such policies are already being felt in schools, workplaces and public accommodations. Crossdressers—especially those without the legal protection of a trans identity—may find themselves excluded from bathrooms, dress codes or healthcare access. In schools, social transition (which could include simply asking to be called by a different name or pronoun) is now treated as a form of “radical indoctrination” under Trump’s Executive Order 14186. Such measures send a clear message: nonconformity is a threat and visibility is a liability.
This political climate does more than restrict legal rights—it emboldens social hostility. As laws narrow the definitions of acceptable gender expression, public attitudes often follow. For many crossdressers, venturing into public spaces becomes a calculated risk. Will I be harassed? Will I be misgendered, denied service or physically threatened? These questions, once reserved for the most visibly trans individuals, are now increasingly relevant to anyone who dresses outside gender norms, regardless of identity. Even those who crossdress in private or within tolerant communities may feel the chilling effect of broader societal backlash.
And yet, in this moment of heightened scrutiny, crossdressing also functions as a powerful act of resistance. To wear what one chooses—especially when that choice disrupts long-standing cultural assumptions—is a declaration of autonomy. It says: “I define myself.” In a time when legal structures and public discourse attempt to force conformity, this expression becomes not just personal, but political.
To navigate today’s landscape, crossdressers must balance visibility with safety, expression with awareness. In progressive cities and supportive communities, gender nonconformity may be met with affirmation or indifference. But elsewhere, the risks are real and rising. Knowledge of local laws, connection with LGBTQ+ advocacy groups and community-based safety strategies are essential tools for anyone who wishes to assert their right to dress as they choose.
In conclusion, while crossdressing is not illegal, it is increasingly politicized. The broader assault on gender diversity, spearheaded by figures like Trump, places all forms of gender nonconformity under suspicion. Crossdressers—alongside trans, nonbinary, and gender-fluid individuals—are caught in the crossfire of a cultural war over identity, autonomy and visibility. The path forward will require not only resilience, but solidarity across the spectrum of gender expression. The fight for the freedom to dress authentically is, at its core, a fight for the right to exist unapologetically in one’s own skin—and in one’s own clothes.
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"...path forward will require not only resilience, but solidarity across the spectrum of gender expression."
ReplyDeleteWe'll need to stand together and look out for each other. Yes, things seem bad, but we've been here before and survived.
If you're thinking "but what difference do I make?" when you share who you are, when you go out, when you interact with kindness; all these things help promote the truth that we're human and we matter.
Good Morning Stana,
ReplyDeleteThis excellent essay, blog post, provides a clear and powerful message that everyone, regardless of their place in the gender, and gender expression, realm, needs to hear, needs to think about, and needs to keep in mind during these stunningly wretched political times. The impetus behind the awful legal and social threats to gender variant individuals and groups is painfully clear; it is the pig and his minions and their deluded misguided and small minded followers.
Even with all this going on, we must stay true to our own well being and our own enjoyment of our lives. So many of us, perhaps nearly all of us, simply want to live a good life being the way we are, not bothering anyone.
Onward for all of us!
Best to you,
Marissa in Ohio
Excellent essay, Stana.
ReplyDeleteFor many, Make America Great Again means a return to a time of hostility towards those in the LGBTI+ community and those who express themselves in a manner that doesn’t correspond to their narrow view of what’s acceptable or “normal.” The hate and ridicule propagated by MAGA commenters and supporters is more than troubling. I hope this phase passes, but the Trump Regime and its supporters seem determined to put “those people” in their place where “those people” might be gay, transgender, Black, or anyone who disagrees with their regressive beliefs and policies.
Amber from Chicago
Ironically, where do, or where did, the vast majority of those Womanless Weddings and Womanless Beauty Pageants take place? In the "good ole boy" south where my guess is some of those macho men enjoyed it a lot more than they ever admitted. I think only a small fraction of those are put on these days.
ReplyDeleteThose who are so disgusted with us appear to have a total lack of understanding re: what we are about. I would wager that many have no idea that there are transmen. And those who do know ignore it as it does not fit their narrative of "a man in a dress"
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand-as we are being bashed around have you noticed that there has been little or no rebuttal from the same crew that supposedly had our back 2 years ago? The worst are the doctors who made all kinds of money on surgeries and now
are hiding out.
Hopefully there a good percentage of MAGA supporters who I hope will continue to indicate that we should just be left alone. I've seen these folks express the view that the negativity toward us was raised by the girl's sports issue If that goes away we should remain under the radar. emily
This month saw the London Transgender Pride event being held in the city centre where an unbelievable 100,000 transgender and trans-allies marched to Westminster to show their feeling about the current situation that the Transgender community is having to deal with.
ReplyDeleteThis was more of a protest march rather than a celebration, and gave lots of visibility of the Transgender Community.
My partner and I were proud to be part of the event and hope that something will come out of the event.
It has been classed as the biggest Transgender march ever- so there is that to consider on how the UK trans community feels about the current political agenda.
The issues are not just in the USA - as the UK has had many changes to Trans Rights in recent times.
Please keep being visible when ever you can - hiding in the shadows helps erase the community.
Dawn
All those of us who simply go out for a cup of coffee, do some shopping and occasionally see a play/symphony/etc are ignoring the impact of young families having a child come home from school and not only say they are now a different gender but on top of that mum and dad have zero say on what their 11 year old does about it. It seems wilfully ignorant to underestimate the animosity that created. Yes, the readership of this blog probably skews older and we just want to quietly go about our lives but the repercussions we are seeing now were created by the more miltant factions of our own community. Too much too soon, we got greedy. It’s not right but it’s also not unexpected.
ReplyDeleteYes ! It seems wilfully ignorant to underestimate the animosity that created.
DeleteWe must doubly use caution when out, as trans folk and women.
ReplyDeleteStill, I feel, with caution, that we must be out and visible. Some support us and always have. Some hate us and always will. I firmly believe that the majority are in the middle, and they must see us and we must interact with them.
News and entertainment are one and the same now, and the most shocking thing is what gets shown. Even if attempted as a positive gesture, it still borders on the extreme.
If we wait on the politicians, we will get no where. Even among our “supporters “ we are a cause, a vote, something to be put on a pedestal when it suits them, and used as a human shield when stones get thrown.
If we do not go out, no one gets to see the Stana who works in her cubicle and makes coffee for the others. No one sees the Norah who is a clean and quiet hotel guest who asks for nothing. And no one sees the JJ, Julie, or any number of us who dine at a restaurant with a mate and bothers no one. No, that is right boring and will never be seen if we are not out there to show that we are just everyday girls in most regards.
Be safe, hold your head high, and show the world the respectable girl you are!
Norah
I believe that Many of us closeted seniors because of one's Anti Trans Social Circle , who would love to go out to a restaurant and meet trans-girl friends who have to abstain from all crossdressing out of abject fear.
ReplyDeleteAs a person living in Washington State I am protected by state and local laws. I cannot remember a single case of a trans-person victimizing anybody. They are usually a victim. The hate I have seen coming from any segment of society has come on Sunday morning from the pulpit where ministers will rail against gays and lesbians and transgender men and women. It also comes from The White House. Even in my state there are disagreements on certain aspects of trans-life, e.g., entry into women's competitive races. Most people seem to have mellowed here, and take the position to let people be who they are. Whether you choose to have a gay or lesbian or trans-person over for dinner is a personal choice, but don't infringe on others who are different.
ReplyDeleteI have to say as a man presenting en femme wearing dresses in the Dallas-Fort Worth area, I have never been harrased or threatened in any way. I do not have a "boy mode". I do not frequent any CD groups or bars, and hang out in my church which is NOT into the LBG*** ideas and in my local amateur radio group. In the radio group at the monthly meetings they recite the Pledge of Allegiance and someone leads in prayer at the beginning of the meeting. The radio group has brunch every Wednesday which I attend. Some waitress said to me, "Hi beautiful one" this morning which made my day.
ReplyDeleteI speak in my normal male voice and go by the name of John.
John