tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post7275579261530111903..comments2024-03-28T09:40:37.931-04:00Comments on Femulate: Hard WorkStanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10259788604423472207noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-73440968281913004522019-08-15T10:04:11.538-04:002019-08-15T10:04:11.538-04:00You wrote, "Being a man being a woman is defi...You wrote, "Being a man being a woman is definitely hard work, but I would not give it up for anything!" I meant no offense. I was merely pointing out that those of us under the trans umbrella can see ourselves in different ways, and that some may not appreciate the comparison being made by saying "real woman." I'm not a snowflake, nor am I some troll. I wasn't pointing it out because I was terribly hurt by it, nor was I attacking you. Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15951206717208424386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-20163546294348384552019-08-14T23:36:11.785-04:002019-08-14T23:36:11.785-04:00Obviously, you don't know me, so please keep y...Obviously, you don't know me, so please keep your comments about who I am to yourself.Stanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10259788604423472207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-3013673618984741792019-08-14T19:20:30.724-04:002019-08-14T19:20:30.724-04:00There are many trans women who consider themselves...There are many trans women who consider themselves to be "real women." Better terms for what you are trying to say are "cis woman" or "natal-born woman." <br /><br />It's obvious that you consider yourself a man being a woman (at times, and maybe with a desire to be so 24/7). That's fine with me, but that's not how I see myself. I never was a real man, even if my body may have indicated as such, but I was certainly born to grow into being a woman. In that sense, I am real.<br /><br />I was challenged once by another trans woman who asked how I could be a real woman (or even feel myself to be) because my hair, breasts, nails, etc. were all fake. Those things do not necessarily define a real woman, but they don't necessarily make a woman fake, either - no matter what her assigned-at-birth gender was. Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15951206717208424386noreply@blogger.com