tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post6690383602669382596..comments2024-03-27T16:07:51.037-04:00Comments on Femulate: Who KnowsStanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10259788604423472207noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-15293264798893979322013-06-20T09:13:00.917-04:002013-06-20T09:13:00.917-04:00I agree with Joan, open the conversation.
By the ...I agree with Joan, open the conversation.<br /><br />By the way, I've just started working as the real me, and it's fabulous. It's so much easier to do my job when I can be 100% present.<br /><br />Reading femulate has been an inspiration, so thanks for helping me get where I am!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04638811976658654688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-17098718749580879422013-06-20T08:53:20.425-04:002013-06-20T08:53:20.425-04:00I would have to agree with Joan E Barette, we are ...I would have to agree with Joan E Barette, we are merely fooling ourselves and sometimes that works out well and other times it doesn't! Keep doing what you're doing, Stana.Billiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08191152071395073265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-58835520587889105942013-06-19T21:33:40.284-04:002013-06-19T21:33:40.284-04:00We are only fooling ourselves if we do not believe...We are only fooling ourselves if we do not believe that everyone knows. While I was still working for an employer, there were persons and occasions that I came out, metered of course (I thought). Many of those persons I had come out to were friends and are still friends. It's been said to me, that most everyone at work knew, but because of the life that I was leading, (attempting to keep a lid on too much transgender in my professional doings) most respected my privacy and did not bring it up. Perhaps there was some innuendo, perhaps there was an anecdote, Perhaps a third person present conversation. But all in all, they knew, they respected where I would take things. Some were comfortable, and still are, some were uncomfortable. But most weighed where I was with what I brought to light. And acted in accordance. Your gay friend has you pegged. Open the conversation about who you are.. from the reading I have of you, you are a professional you are very good at what you do, you have humility and kindness. People do and will respect you for who you are, I can promise.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-75895330345220103942013-06-19T11:26:15.757-04:002013-06-19T11:26:15.757-04:00I know! You never really know who knows and who d...I know! You never really know who knows and who doesn't know - ya know?Julie M Shawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11335088569492502222noreply@blogger.com