tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post4498616813470163313..comments2024-03-29T09:38:11.819-04:00Comments on Femulate: ad nauseumStanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10259788604423472207noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-24002918432290500772014-11-18T19:50:19.694-05:002014-11-18T19:50:19.694-05:00what i fail to see is why is being transgenered s...what i fail to see is why is being transgenered sissy lg cd tg boy's wishing wanting to be girl's why what is so very terrible about this it is quite natual to revert back into the gender you are most comfortable being and i too wish and want to be a girl female i have wished and wanted this ever since i was three four and or even five to be a girl and not male at all being a boy is not what you think it is!eleventhdrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00420273735989011045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-86456912029235242802014-11-18T11:09:09.090-05:002014-11-18T11:09:09.090-05:00The old carpenter's adage - "Measure Twic...The old carpenter's adage - "Measure Twice - Cut Once" - applies here as well, my dear. Be sure of what to say, how to say it, and when to say it BEFORE you start cutting. Blessings to you and her, sweetie.Julie M Shawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11335088569492502222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-80743109857773529042014-11-18T09:56:25.307-05:002014-11-18T09:56:25.307-05:00My preferred idiom of speech has tended to be the ...My preferred idiom of speech has tended to be the combined "ad nauseum, ad infinitum", but one of the pleasures we have from reading your blog is the true humanity that you display in all aspects of your life. Therefore I likely speak for others when I suggest that your readers have not tired of reading about the practical aspects of your soul searching quest to address your gender issues in the context of your personal and professional situation.<br /><br />You are likely correct that at this point in time, with your long history at your company and the fact that the remainder of your work life is getting shorter every day, your presenting to work some days dressed as a man and others as a woman or going full time would not alter the workplace landscape any more than when my place of work converted from full time formal business attire to part time and then full time business casual.<br /><br />Only you and your wife can gauge how much your regular dressing at work will create concerns in other areas of your life. In that regard you may be guided by the concept of "primum non nocere" ("First do no harm").<br /><br />Good luck and keep writing from your soul.<br /><br />PatPat Scaleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148601231866277374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-44517421614889533922014-11-18T07:56:41.947-05:002014-11-18T07:56:41.947-05:00Dare I say Stana, the concept of anyone being tran...Dare I say Stana, the concept of anyone being transgender is becoming more and more common place today. And, the concept of you being trans has reached the "yawn and so what" around your work place.<br />As far as your wife goes, it's sad to say but she too will have to come to a place of "calm and so what?"<br />You only live once and I can speak from experience (as you know) I wish I had made the gender move long ago.<br />You have the life others can only dream of now...go seize the rest of what is yours!<br />CyrstiCyrsti Harthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17176333752728572030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-23062910933563085552014-11-18T06:58:33.132-05:002014-11-18T06:58:33.132-05:00Stana, you only have one life to lead and if the o...Stana, you only have one life to lead and if the only obstacle to being truly happy is telling your wife who does not seem to mind as long as she is not involved then go for it! You clearly have been pondering on this for a long time and what better time to come than now when trans issues are out there for all of us to see. You have been an ambassador for a long time and inspired us all to get out there....so take that final step!!.....best, Joannajoanna Santoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16722222181799879120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-79546314225022892992014-11-18T06:11:53.445-05:002014-11-18T06:11:53.445-05:00I so totally see that your at post time and ready ...I so totally see that your at post time and ready to traut out of the gate at the moment the barriers swing wide. I respect totally your care and concern for your wife. And hope that she sees the importance of you being you. As you have cared for her desires though out your lives my desire no is she cares for yours!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com