tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post3537983791965587252..comments2024-03-28T09:40:37.931-04:00Comments on Femulate: Like MacArthurStanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10259788604423472207noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-64573268080376033372012-03-28T10:20:17.544-04:002012-03-28T10:20:17.544-04:00Since I am already several years older than my fat...Since I am already several years older than my father was when he passed, thinking of moving on is something that I do need to consider.<br />As a CD my primary existance is the man I have always presented to all who I have encountered over the years.<br />My CD life is fairly separate from my male existance. Only my wife knows both and she worries that others who know the male me may find out about my other side. This presents problems in many areas should I pass on. What will I be wearing when I die? What about my wardrobe? What about my collection of literature? What about my 'on-line' trail?<br />While it is sad to ponder it may be for the best that our 'other life' simply fade away.<br />PatPat Scaleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148601231866277374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-22058422387559127222012-03-26T21:34:34.000-04:002012-03-26T21:34:34.000-04:00It is the thought of dying without ever living as ...It is the thought of dying without ever living as who I was supposed to be that helped drive my own transition.<br /><br />Whatever happens from this moment on at least I made it this far.<br /><br />I am sorry that you lost a friend.<br /><br />Hugs,<br /><br />AprilAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02991391285746762005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-62253294985810568962012-03-26T19:45:58.140-04:002012-03-26T19:45:58.140-04:00I'm sorry for your group's loss. I was thi...I'm sorry for your group's loss. I was thinking of just this issue the other day. In our digitized world I have thought that the service discussed in this article are not at all a bad idea.<br /><br /> http://www.wired.com/magazine/2010/02/pl_scottbrown_digitalself <br /><br /> I bookmarked this years ago and have had it on my to do list. I've seen so many blogs or sites that have just gone totally static for years and have to wonder what the story may be.Diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13501248299149011600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3372432081562643074.post-448249801558113322012-03-26T19:37:51.488-04:002012-03-26T19:37:51.488-04:00This has always been ever present in the back of m...This has always been ever present in the back of my mind. As a born male, who is 57 years and who's dad died at 44, and am the only living male of my age, on the patriarchal side of my family. I definitely feel as if I am living on borrowed time(I'm hoping it's my femininity that is keeping me out of the averages). This is way I have instructed my female partner of my passwords and those that are important to me to make darn sure that the word gets out that I've moved on to a different plain. And though I don't necessarily believe in reincarnation. I tell those who know me, that when there is a new born baby girl that comes into their lives, to think of me if I have passed. There are a couple of old girls that I love and admire, some I know are still with us and some I don't. One such woman I dearly loved, was Roberta Dearborn. I knew of her through the TCNE and the old Wayland House. She had an honesty about her that was admirable and everlasting in my heart. Last I heard she'd move back to her hometown, VT I think. If any one knows of her whereabouts I would greatly appreciate it.. I hate to think, that such a woman, just faded away! Marisa Sheryl Lynn, was also one of my founding mothers. I had the opportunity in the seventies to be interviewed by her personally for membership into the TCNE. She is/was a leader in our being a community. We should never forget those who came before!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com