For years, the fashion industry has used the word “unisex” to describe clothing that both women and men can wear. In practice, that has usually meant clothing borrowed from the men’s department: T-shirts, jeans, sweatshirts, sneakers and shapeless jackets offered in neutral colors.
Women were welcome to dress like men, but men were not expected to return the compliment.
That may be about to change.
In the near future, “unisex” fashion may no longer mean women wearing traditionally masculine clothing. It may mean both sexes wearing what we now consider women’s clothing.
The change will probably begin quietly. A few adventurous young men will wear blouses with their trousers. Male celebrities will appear at premieres in skirts, hosiery and heeled boots. Designers will send male models down the runway wearing dresses that are not presented as jokes, costumes or political statements. Eventually, department stores will stop labeling every garment strictly “Men” or “Women.”
Instead, clothing will be arranged by style, size and occasion.
Need something for the office? The businesswear department will offer trouser suits, skirt suits, sheath dresses, blouses and heels to everybody. Shopping for a wedding? The formalwear department will have gowns, cocktail dresses and elegant separates in sizes and proportions designed for a wide variety of bodies.
A husband and wife might visit a boutique together and browse the same racks. She may select a pantsuit while he chooses a wrap dress. They might share opinions, compare shoes and argue over who saw a particular blouse first.
Young people will likely lead the way. They already shop with fewer rules than previous generations did. To them, a skirt may simply be another clothing choice rather than a declaration about the person wearing it. Once enough young men begin wearing feminine fashions openly, manufacturers will notice an enormous untapped market.
Money has a way of making yesterday’s forbidden fashion become tomorrow’s must-have look.
Designers will begin adjusting traditional womenswear to accommodate male bodies—not by making it masculine, but by improving the fit. Dresses will have broader shoulders, longer sleeves and different waist proportions. Shoes will be available in larger sizes. Hosiery will be made for longer legs. Bras, shapewear and lingerie will be redesigned for customers who were not born with typically female figures.
The goal will not be to disguise the wearer’s sex. A man in a dress will not necessarily be trying to pass as a woman, although some certainly may. He may simply believe that a dress is attractive, comfortable and appropriate for the occasion.
Of course, many men will go further.
Once the dress becomes acceptable, the accessories will follow. A dress looks better with the right shoes. The shoes may call for hosiery. The neckline may look unfinished without a necklace. A handbag is more practical than overstuffed pockets. Makeup can brighten the face, earrings add sparkle and a flattering hairstyle completes the presentation.
Before long, a man who once insisted that he was “only wearing a skirt” may find himself checking his lipstick before leaving the house.
Workplaces will change, too. The old male uniform of dark suit, white shirt and tie will seem increasingly dull beside the variety available to women. Men will discover pencil skirts, colorful blouses, coordinated jewelry and the pleasure of owning more than two acceptable styles of business shoe.
Office dress codes will no longer specify separate clothing for men and women. They will simply require professional attire. A skirt suit will be professional regardless of whether the employee wearing it is named Susan or Steven.
Special occasions may accelerate the trend. Weddings, parties and formal dinners give people permission to dress more imaginatively. A man might first wear a gown as a member of a wedding party, then discover that he enjoys the elegance and attention. After that, wearing a dress to another social event will not seem nearly so daring.
There will still be resistance. Some people will complain that men no longer look like men. Others will predict the collapse of civilization, as people have done whenever hemlines rose, women wore trousers or men grew their hair long.
Civilization will survive.
Eventually, seeing men in dresses will become as unremarkable as seeing women in jeans. Children growing up in that world may be puzzled when they learn that clothing was once divided by sex. They will wonder why half the population was discouraged from wearing most of the colors, fabrics and styles in the store.
Crossdressers may have mixed feelings about this new freedom. On one hand, leaving the house in a skirt and heels will be easier than ever. On the other, something once daring and special will have become ordinary.
But perhaps that is the best possible outcome.
We will still be able to dress beautifully, experiment with our appearance and enjoy expressing our feminine side. We simply will not need an excuse.
When the fashion industry finally embraces truly unisex clothing, it will not eliminate menswear or force everyone into a dress. It will do something much simpler: give everyone access to the entire wardrobe.
And when that day arrives, “unisex” will finally mean what it should have meant all along.
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one certain thing here--manufacturers would bend over backward to develop a market for men to wear ladies fashion. men's empty closets would fill up quickly
ReplyDeleteInteresting observation. Now that I wear dresses as a man, I have over 60 dresses. I never had so many men's shirts and pants. I have two pairs of men's dress shoes and a lot more heels. And my go to outfit for funerals is a black dress and heels.
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I recently discovered that Yura Romaniuk, one of the new wave of transfemme models (see Alex Consani, Colin Jones, Ariel , Ivy Stewart) isn't actually a trans woman. He's just a very andro cis guy (I hate the word cis, but it beats saying genetic) who likes wearing dresses and looking pretty, but said he doesn't plan on transition and doesn't understand why he should change his pronouns when so many people call him she/they. https://www.alamy.com/new-york-usa-09th-sep-2024-model-yura-romaniuk-walks-on-the-runway-at-the-coach-fashion-show-during-the-spring-summer-2025-collections-fashion-show-at-new-york-fashion-week-in-new-york-ny-on-september-9-20224-photo-by-jonas-gustavssonsipa-usa-credit-sipa-usaalamy-live-news-image621324648.html Again, I find this fascinating. And it also is telling the waves of TERFs who want androgyny but don't want trans women to identify as women aren't embracing Yura as an alternative to being a trans woman.
ReplyDeleteLike Yura Romaniuk, I have chosen to keep my masculine name and pronouns (he, him, his). That's in spite of being on estrogen for over 14 years and presenting "en femme" virtually all the time. I have DD bust and blond hair beyond shoulder length, and I wear dresses. One thing that is not feminine: I sing second bass in my church choir.
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another excellent article darling Stana ππ i believe your vision of the future will evolve at pace. we know that more & more men already cross dress. we know that more & more wives & girlfriends are encouraging it. we know that the internet is awash with all different sorts of crossdressing sites & viewing rates are climbing. the clothing industry will already be monitoring these trends & there will be advertising of women’s clothes for men as they will foresee a new money making market. my question is that when ‘this day arrives’ how will it affect the ‘thrill’ some get from crossdressing today when it is ‘the norm’ ? I wonder ? ππ
ReplyDeleteDon't forget about makeup. I think it's strange that the makeup companies have't expanded their marketing to men, such as lipstick, eye makeup, nail polish, etc.
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why do "wives and Girlfriends" encourage it"
ReplyDelete"They will wonder why half the population was discouraged from wearing most of the colors, fabrics and styles in the store." I too often wondered that when I was young...then I decided that they were too irresistible and here we all are today, discussing our favorite heels and hose and skirts and.....
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